Yes, it is true that having your first night together is kind of awkward especially if you have waited for a long time for it to happen. You have to make sure that you want make it special and memorable. The question is how do you make it special? What can you do to ease your partner’s tension and anxiety?

Follow these simple tips and you are all the way to your most memorable first sex…

Light up scented candles

Scented candles are great to ease your anxieties because of its calming aroma. Sex can be very sweet and relaxing especially if you have dimmed the lights.

Sexy massage and aphrodisicas

Massage your way to orgasmic pleasure. Use edible massage oils to make things steamier by touching your partner and can have an oral sex right after. You can also choose to have chocolates and other types of edibles for you to be in heat.

Sexy and playful lingerie

You can use sexy lingerie such as teddies, thongs and mesh baby dolls to entice your partner to go deep inside you. This sexy lingerie is not only a great teaser but will also make you very unforgettable. If want to be more playful you can wear sexy costumes for a role playing sex or edible undies for a more intense oral sex. Your partner will definitely think twice about devouring you.

Sexy videos

If both of you are virgins and you do not know what to do, you can choose to play a sexy video just before or during having sex. Of course, it can be a little awkward but who knows, these videos might give you a great idea on how to move around your partner in a sexier and hotter way.

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Men cannot fully grasp why women are not able to speak what they want in bed. They are basically just lying and be contented of what men do to them and practically complain to their other friends that they never achieve orgasm.

Of course, women scream, groan and cry with pleasure in bed. Considering that these are expressions, these too can be faked just as so they cannot hurt the ego of their men. They have a hard time in expressing their sexual needs and wishes in very simple phrases. They would just opt for the preference of men. They don’t express their desires of wanting to use vibrators or other types of sex toys.

Normally, women would just give hints like winking, giving gestures and probably pointing their lips to a direction which are basically lame to begin with. Well, you need to know that men are not fortune-tellers, so unless you tell them what you want, they wouldn’t know what to do. For sure, when you tell him what to do, he won’t be having a hard time.

So if you want to be great in bed, why don’t you give him sex whispers? These whispers will surely give him a better idea on what you want and surely, you will enjoy having sex all the time.

Women have different takes on sex; some want it slow and some want it fast. So, it is best if you tell your man how you want it to be. This way, he will have an idea on what kind of pace you want. Plus, it would be easier for both of you to have orgasm at the same time especially if you prefer using sex toys such as a vibrator.

On the other hand, if you are not comfortable on what he is doing to you, then speak up. At least he knows how you feel and can adjust on what you want.

Sex has colors too. It may be odd to think about it, but it is true. Like your aura that has different colors that affects your mood, personality and attitude, same thing goes with sex. The colors that you like may attribute on what you feel and what you are. So do you want to know that your color means?

Green

A person who is addicted to green has a fresh and innocent approach to lovemaking. People that prefer green are fresh new and innocent within their method of sex. Women who like green have a preference for virgin-like sex. They are not as adventurous as others but they can be to adult sex toys such as vibrators. On the other hand, men that love green may not really passionate lovers, however, they are loyal and dependable.

Pink

People who like pink indicate a reluctance to mature in sexual things. They are typically not open to using sex toys. However, women are typically great teasers and have the desire to give in. Those people who love pink project femininity and virginity.

Orange

Those who love the orange color have a lot of sexual fantasies. They perceive sex like a movie or perform through which they are the protagonist which is why they are open on using sex toys. They value foreplay. They favor cuddling, dandling, fondling and whispering sweet important things. Most of the time, they are having difficulty in having orgasm but they are looking for ways to have great orgasm.

Brown

Individuals that like brown are intimate and loving people. They have to have special ambiance and privacy to appreciate sex more. Brown lovers are vulnerable and can easily be hurt by harsh words.

Blue

People who are addicted to blue are usually great sex partners. They are considerate toward their partner’s feelings. They are sincere and sensitive as well. They get pleasure from lovemaking, look at it as an art and have sophisticated approach to it. So the use of sex toys such as vibrators will not be difficult for them.

Males who like blue are extremely attentive lovers. Those who are addicted to blue enjoy foreplay, the act, and aftermath of sex.

Most medical doctors consider that a girl should start having sex by ages 16-20 years old but not older than 35 years old. This is because for medical reasons, if the woman has sex in a later age, chances are she would be less healthy. Scientifically speaking, a body organ must function when it is already mature enough to function.

Of course, that does not mean that you just have to have sex just because you want to do it to comply with the age requirement; you must be sure of it as well. If you happen to have sex, it can be better to have a monogamous sexual relationship; this is to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. Aside from that, being in a monogamous sexual relationship assures you in avoiding cervical cancer caused by having multiple sexual partners.

Sex and other health disorders

As many medical practitioner claims, having sex can help in avoiding health disorders. Plus, a person who’s having sex can have a better body considering that sex can tone one’s body; this is due to a better blood flow. It is actually like a cardio workout where you can sweat out your body toxins.

When it comes to emotional health, sex can be helpful as well. It boosts the morale of a person and gives a great emotional satisfaction especially when orgasm is achieved.

How to make sex better?

There are many ways to make sex better. One of which is the use of adult sex toys. Adult toys may be too forward for some but it gives them better sex. There are many sex toys that you can choose from. You choose to have vibrators, dildos, love dolls, and cock rings. These sex toys are all available in the market; you just need to be careful in choosing though so you don’t get to use something that is of low quality.

During this Christmas season, the wind is colder and sex is hardly to come by because of the tiring and busy schedule for Christmas shopping and parties.

So what can you do to make things interesting and sex better?

Here are the things that you can get for a hot sex on a cold Christmas night.

Make your room sex-worthy

Can you imagine yourself having sex in a room that is well-lit and has no romantic touch? Well, it is something that is not even sex-worthy and for sure, when you get home, you would not even dare to have sex. What you need to do is to make your room enticing. You can turn off the light and light up some scented candles. Choose the aromatic scents that can soothe you both. Also, you can throw in some rose petals on the floor and on your bed.

Eat chocolates and drink wine or champagne

These types of food and liquor are great aphrodisiacs. Share this with your partner and you will surely have the hottest sex ever. You can choose to buy chocolates where you can clone the shape of your vagina. You can even use edible massage oils where you massage and lick each other. There are gift sets that are available where you can try different kinds of flavors of edible body oils.

Use sex toys

There are many types of sex toys that you can use. You can choose to have love dolls for a passionate threesome, dildo vibrators for anal sex and G-spot stimulation. There are also sex slings where you can experiment hanging yourself on the door or wall and do a “sexhibition”.

When you do all of these, no matter how cold the Christmas night is, you will definitely make it hot and flaming.