Men cannot fully grasp why women are not able to speak what they want in bed. They are basically just lying and be contented of what men do to them and practically complain to their other friends that they never achieve orgasm.
Of course, women scream, groan and cry with pleasure in bed. Considering that these are expressions, these too can be faked just as so they cannot hurt the ego of their men. They have a hard time in expressing their sexual needs and wishes in very simple phrases. They would just opt for the preference of men. They don’t express their desires of wanting to use vibrators or other types of sex toys.
Normally, women would just give hints like winking, giving gestures and probably pointing their lips to a direction which are basically lame to begin with. Well, you need to know that men are not fortune-tellers, so unless you tell them what you want, they wouldn’t know what to do. For sure, when you tell him what to do, he won’t be having a hard time.
So if you want to be great in bed, why don’t you give him sex whispers? These whispers will surely give him a better idea on what you want and surely, you will enjoy having sex all the time.
Women have different takes on sex; some want it slow and some want it fast. So, it is best if you tell your man how you want it to be. This way, he will have an idea on what kind of pace you want. Plus, it would be easier for both of you to have orgasm at the same time especially if you prefer using sex toys such as a vibrator.
On the other hand, if you are not comfortable on what he is doing to you, then speak up. At least he knows how you feel and can adjust on what you want.